You Need Strength For Push Hands
By Steven Smith 03 May 2009
Learn to do…
One Arm Push Ups.
Yep.
I know: it flies in the face of common Tai Chi ideas. But let’s be real.
If you want real self defense, you need some strength. If you want to stop predatory perpetrators or save yourself from violence or physical aggression, you need strength. You gotta have some.
Certainly avoid terrible streets and alleys. Learn to talk nicely and give away your wallet. Do that stuff. But be prepared to protect yourself. It’s fun and useful knowledge.
Beside that, though, you need strength for daily life, really. I mean, come on, change a tire, pick up a child, or chop wood; you’ll need some strength.
Sensitivity and feeling is important too. But you discover deep feelings as your structure develops functional and useful strength. And if can’t do a one-arm push up (the way I describe below)…you have work to do. Before sensitivity will be useful for self-defense, you’ll need some strength.
First: one arm push ups.
It’s not so tough: no need to do it on the floor, fully horizontal. A wall is okay. You can get a great one-armer (if you’re my height: 5’11”) on a kitchen counter.
Check it out…
Wrist Push Ups for Taiji Pushing Hands
Notice the Yang Hand and the Yin Version at :25-:27. Later, you’ll use the Yin Version to protect (to ward-off) force. You’ll push with the Yang Hand.
When you create the proper physical structure to push, you’ll learn fast. Please breathe. Breathe deep and long. As it gets easier, relax more and more. Let your tissues hold your structure as if your tissues wrapped, snuggly, around your bones. Pushing up will get easier. So will push-ups.
Push as if Punching
If you cannot deliver force, you’re no good to train with. If you cannot won’t mock a perpetrator’s aggressive attack, you won’t help your friend develop self-defense. So do not train too softly. Learn softness and sensitivity as your structure grows taut and confident. You’ll get what’s called tension-integrity.
When you develop the one-arm push with the Yin Wrist, the cool stuff happens. You create round tension-integrity and learn to ward-off force.
If you cannot resist force, do these intense, wrist-bent-inward pushes again and again. Please, learn to resist. You’ll get strong wrists too, preventing all sorts of other typing-related dis-eases.
The Only Resistance is Mine.
–Erin Geeseman-Rabke, a somatic movement artist
It’s quite difficult to resist force-on-force, by-the-way. Force has one vector. A punch flying at your face goes one-way. It goes—Bang—right in your throat. It doesn’t wind around and about, this way and that, searching for your center.
You’d have to be very sensitive to find that exact vector, to meet force-on-force, but…
When people say don’t use force on force, it’s more likely people mean: don’t meet force with lots of confusing, fear-reactive tension. Or: don’t meet force with unified, inward-contracting, self-defeating forces.
And yeah: don’t.
You need resistance to do simple stuff, though, like stand or hold your mouth closed. You don’t need much. But don’t give it all away. You also need resistance to act like the crazy rebel that you are…don’t give that away either. (I like your inner rebel…do you?)
Just drop the useless, self-defeating, deprecating, overly-tense, ridiculously bitter and cynical stress-tensions that keep you from your true strength.
Relax enough, yep.
And have fun.
You can develop a real, solid foundation for Pushing Hands with One Arm Push-Ups.
